People sometimes talk about bank accounts as though they are a relationship test. Joint means committed. Separate means guarded. A mixture means somebody has not quite made up their mind. Real life is less tidy. Two people can put every dollar into one account and still avoid deciding what their money is for. Two other people can keep most of their income separate, pay shared costs clearly and build the same future on purpose. The account structure matters. It just cannot do the relationship's work for you. Good Shepherd NZ's Healthy Financial Relationships Toolkit makes a useful point: some couples To View More >>